Toward the finish of their life, dying from cancer tumors, but finally sober, finally in a reliable relationship, and lastly at comfort, the US author and poet Raymond Carver had written “Late Fragment”:
And did you can get that which you desired with this life, nevertheless? Used to do. And exactly exactly what did you desire? To phone myself beloved, to feel myself beloved in the planet.
Carver’s words express exactly what we all want deep down, particularly from wedding: we should feel beloved. Nonetheless it may be difficult to know very well what that kind of love is made of, not to mention where to find it.
It is reasonable to consider that the type or sort of love Carver desired away from life, and also the love we wish away from wedding, may be the love of real relationship.